No matter how much thinking you do in advance, you may feel overwhelmed if testing shows that you have an abnormal breast cancer gene. You'll need practical advice and accurate information to help you handle this new fact in your life.
Practical guidelines to follow:
According to Sue Friedman, founder and executive director of Facing Our Risk of Cancer Empowered (FORCE) it's very important to be kind to yourself and give yourself the time you need to digest all the information, discuss all your options with an expert, and get the emotional support you need. "For those who test positive and haven't had cancer, there is a still an adjustment process and often a grieving process," Friedman says. "Those who test positive have a right to vent and to grieve, just as much as someone who has been diagnosed with a disease."
Friedman continues: "Everyone is so different and there are as many different reactions to a positive test as their are people who test positive! Having said that, there tends to be a sense of immediacy, that someone has to take action tomorrow. I encourage women to give themselves permission to totally digest the information, to grieve and vent as much as they have to before making any definitive decisions on what risk-management strategy to choose. I encourage them to consult with specialists who have expertise in management of high-risk patients and get several opinions.
"I also think it can be helpful to connect with others who have had a positive test — either via the FORCE message boards, our toll-free help line, or face-to-face via a support group. Sometimes family and friends who haven't faced these issues cannot totally understand and cannot always be as supportive as we wish. I know that personally, after learning I was positive, I couldn't find a single friend or family member who understood what I was going through. Later, down the road and after I founded FORCE it was so refreshing to connect with people who really 'got it.'"
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