- Question from Melinda: Marc, what would be your Top Three ways a spouse or other caregiver can help someone get through all that breast cancer involves? And how do you help yourself deal with it?
- Answers - Marc Silver Well, I repeat the motto of the breast cancer husband, "Shut up and listen." I think men have a tendency of wanting to rush in and fix things, but this is really a time to take your cue from your wife. And if she's not giving directions, ask for them. And it's important not to be a martyr, to make time for yourself with your wife's permission. I interviewed Cokie Roberts, the journalist who herself had breast cancer. Friends would call her and ask what they could do to help, and she would say, "Play tennis with my husband."
The Ask-the-Expert Online Conference called Partners, Loved Ones, Caregivers: Taking Care of You featured Author Marc Silver and moderator Rosalind Kleban, L.C.S.W. answering your questions about how you can take care of your loved one and yourself during and after breast cancer treatment.
Editor's Note: This conference took place in February 2007.
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