Supporting Someone With Breast Cancer

If your friend, family member, or other loved one is diagnosed with breast cancer, it can bring on feelings of fear, sadness, and helplessness. You may wonder what the “right” things to do or say could be as they navigate their diagnosis and treatment. 

The best thing you can do for them is to tell them you care — and to listen. The way people respond to a breast cancer diagnosis — and how (or if) they want support — is personal.  If you’re not sure, don’t worry too much about doing the wrong thing: being there for them in whatever way you can is usually helpful. 

Your loved one will likely appreciate you taking the time to learn about breast cancer — including the type of breast cancer they have. Understanding breast cancer treatment options and possible treatment side effects will also give you a better understanding of what they’re going through and how you can help. 

Giving your loved one a gift is a simple way to show your support. Breastcancer.org Community members chimed in on the best and worst gifts to give someone with breast cancer. 

You may find yourself taking on the role of your loved one’s caregiver, especially if the person diagnosed is your spouse, partner, or parent. This role comes with its own unique challenges. The Breastcancer.org Community has a dedicated forum for caregivers where you can connect with others who understand your situation. 

— Last updated on August 30, 2025 at 1:49 PM